First off, don't confuse this plateau you're in with being a bad player as I did early on. If you're doing something well and you're getting gigs, (paid or not as long as you're having fun) chances are you're doing something right and there is nothing wrong with that.
Take control of YOUR LIFE. If you want something, go for it. Real life advice: no one's going to hand it to you. You want to start a blog, just fuckin do it. You want to get a website going, do it. You will never be awesome right out of the gates. Learn as you go, set small goals for yourself, and go for it.